A Brief Note and a Request for Prayer
I am delighted to have the opportunity for you to listen to a sermon that I recently preached in chapel for faculty and students of Lincoln Christian College. Even though I have preached on Rev. 21 many times, I have never taken the approach that I took in the sermon that you are able to listen to.
The text and the sermon was especially meaningful to me because of my present situation. Sermons are prepared in a variety of contexts–notably the context of the student-preacher and the context of the listener. The sermon I preached was prepared and preached in the context of a health issue that I am dealing with (please see below). Your prayers are appreciated.
When an occasion arises demanding focused prayer, I have determined that it is seldom the case that we can be too early in requesting prayer, but we can be too late. So I share the following prayer request with you.
Several days ago I went in for a consultation because I had been having trouble with kidney stones. The doctor ordered x-rays, and upon reading them he ordered additional ones that would do a more thorough job in analyzing a problem I was having.
On Wednesday of this week, Marilyn (my wife) and I met with a specialist. He informed us that the x-rays revealed that I have a mass/tumor at the root of the mesentery where the main trunk of blood vessels feeding into the intestine branch out. (My wife took notes, and if it were not for her ability to understand medical jargon, I would simply be saying: I’ve got a problem!) This mass could be putting out a type of hormone which determines whether or not the carcinoid is benign or malignant. If it is malignant, then the doctors would remove as much of the mass as they could, but it would not be possible to remove it completely because of its size and strategic location. If it is benign, then they would monitor it. Some of you have been on a similar journey, or have had or have loved ones and friends who have, and you well know the anxiety and the fear that such a report creates.
What is a relief to Marilyn and me is that at least at this point I have no obvious symptoms suggesting a malignancy. The doctor told us to be encouraged by this. But in a few days I will be going in for a biopsy. Marilyn and our children and their spouses ask you to be praying for us in the days ahead. Specifically, we are praying that the tumor be benign. Over the years when I have prayed for someone’s physical needs, I have also linked my petition with the spiritual. We are desiring a positive outcome with all of this so that I can continue to serve. But above all, we ask that God be honored in what happens.
In my preaching and teaching ministries I have stressed the necessity of community. Far too often we try to bear various kinds of burdens by ourselves. I have shared the above with family members, some close friends, and a few colleagues. It would be unfair and wrong for me not to expand the community of brothers and sisters. Marilyn and I determined that if we failed to share it with the Christian community at large we would be denying what we have been teaching and preaching over the years. Late last night I re-read these words by Dietrich Bonhoeffer:
God will be constantly crossing our paths and canceling our plans by sending us people with claims and petitions. We may pass them by, preoccupied with our important tasks, as the priest passed by the man who had fallen among thieves, perhaps reading the Bible. When we do that we pass by the visible sign of the Cross raised athwart our path to show us that, not our way, but God’s way must be done. . . . [We] do not want a life that is crossed and balked. But it is part of the discipline of humility that we must not spare our hand where it can perform service and that we do not assume that our schedule is our own to manage, but allow it to be arranged by God.
I have grown in this area that Bonhoeffer calls “the ministry of helpfulness,†realizing that my schedule is not my own and that I must allow it to be arranged by God. I have attempted to be more faithful in offering prayers and ministry on behalf of others in light of Bonhoeffer’s counsel.
I just turned fifty-eight and that event, coupled with this being Fall, my favorite time of the year, and now my condition, well . . . I have found that never have the colors of the season been more beautiful to me and never has the importance of sacred time with family and friends and colleagues been more treasured.
Years ago when I was a teenager I met former New York Yankees player, Bobby Richardson. He preached at a youth rally at my home church in Indianapolis. I do not remember the sermon, but I remember his prayer. It was a simple one: “God’s will be done—nothing more, nothing else, nothing less. Amen.†I continue to pray that prayer.
We will keep you posted.
And we are grateful for your partnership, friendship, and prayers.
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Bob, our prayers are definitely with you and your family.
No matter how we might try, we can’t run from things. I sometimes wonder what might befall me, even as I pray for you, my 10 year old cousin who has cancer, and the list just grows from there.
How wonderful it is that we have true hope in Christ, no matter the perceived crisis. Fix your mind firmly on Him, and invite Christ to go deep in your heart.
“Christ is ready to come to you, with what kindness in his glance! But you must make room, deep in your heart, to entertain him as he deserves; it is for the inward eye, all the splendor and beauty of him; deep in your heart is where he likes to be [with such a man] he is a frequent visitor (in H. T. Kerr, Readings in Christian thought, p. 132)
We love you Bob!
Dan
You, Marilyn and your family will certainly be in my prayers. Though time and miles may separate us, fond memories and God our Father binds us together. And yes, God’s will be done.
Blessings,
Becky
Our family will be praying for you, Bob.
We love you!
Charissa, Stuart, Lauren, & Caleb
I will be praying for you. My husband is a student at the Seminary and he adores you and your teaching! Thank you for all that you do.
Stacie
Our prayers for you and your family will be multitude but as in Bob Richardson’s prayer, “His will be done – nothing more, nothing else, nothing less.” May God continue to be glorified through you. My late brother, John Ransom, said it all – “I am a part of a Divine Managed Care Health Program”. Aren’t we all? God bless.
With Christian love, Kathy
Bob,
My wife, Vicky, and I will be praying that your tumor is benign. We also will be praying that God’s will be done. May God continue to bless you and yours.
Stan
Bob,
Mark and I first met you while serving as short term workers in Austria. You sent me your notes on Revelation entitled Moving From Mystery to Meaning…How To Read The Book of Revelation. I am currently studying Anne Graham Lotz’s study on Revelation and pulled out your notes. I wanted to dig deeper and went to Lincoln’s web site. From there I found your home page . . . and from there it is truly a God thing. Mark and my spiritual gifts are first and foremost faith and intercession. YES, we will be praying for you and your family! This is not by accident that I read about what is going on in your life. Please do take care and all God’s healing breath on you.
Warmly,
Debbie Miller (4 Mark too!)
Praying!
Bob, you are one of the reasons my husband is waiting for us to join him in heaven. Your legacy is deep and wide. At this point in your life, know that your Christian family and friends are all praying for you and Marilyn. I’m convinced that those who walk alongside those going through trials often suffer most. My prayer is that God will give you and Marilyn comfort, strength, wisdom, patience, peace, and blessings during this time. Yes…blessings. In the midst of our trials blessings can be greater than imagined or experienced during the peaceful times. May God continue to bless and watch over you, dear friend.
Bob and Marilyn, Welcome to the club. God has been preparing you for this your whole life. Since we received your news of the awful/wonderful problem, we have been praying for your whole family. I say “awful,” because I would not wish this on my worst enemy, and “wonderful,” because I know from experience that your are enjoying (and will, far into the future) a depth of peace and fellowship with Him and His children that is beyond your wildest imaginings. Thank you for sharing with us. You cannot do this alone; you were never meant to.
Walter is not feeling all that well today, so while he slept, I sneaked into his office and stole out with The Book. I got the prologue read before he awoke. Thank you for doing this work.
I do not answer every request for prayers about sickness with the prayer for healing. I must feel led to do so. Before her death, my close friend, Barb Curie, and I spent hours discussing what might be valid reasons for asking for healing. We decided that Kingdom issues are valid reasons. Two proposed books, an untold number of future students, a world-wide ministry: these, I believe, are valid Kingdom issues, and I am praying for your healing.
Oh yes, regarding your mother: wish I had been a mother like that!
God bless.
Eddie Smith
Sango Ota, Nigeria